Sometimes I do want to take a drink. But you know what? I don't. Not for any reason other than the bizillion reasons that I have to not drink. I am not far from where I was last year and one cocktail can singlehandedly put me right where I was this time last year.
Let's take time to reflect for a second just to make sure that I haven't forgotten. This time last year I was almost ready for rehab. I was getting kicked out of yet another person's house that let me stay there (because I am family) on the promise that I would get a job that I didn't get because of my drinking.
If you rewind a little bit further I got kicked out of my home and all of my bags were put in my vehicle while I sat there crying. I was given a little money to go away with, but in the end this is how I got kicked out of my home. After that I ended up in the psych ward at the hospital in some crazy circumstances that started with my mother and ended with my mother and well... I don't really need to go into more detail there.
That was just 2 months before I decided to get sober for real this time.
I lost everything in my life. And I'm not saying that in a pitiful poor me way. NO REALLY. I lost everything. I lost my daugher, my house, my relationship(s), friends and lovers, my clothes, my jobs, my furnishings.
I think people who don't know me don't understand the gravity of them asking me "are you drinking again?"
And I guess that if it were warranted I would deserve it. But, it's not.
I do the very best that I can every day.
I get back a little bit of me everyday. I get back a little of what I lost everyday.
I have worked to be where I am today. I deserve to be where I am today.
I love the people that stand by my side and know me.
So.... Thank you. You know who you are.
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